Author: Mumsgather
•5/17/2015 09:00:00 AM
There is a lot of bullying going on in schools these days. My kids often come across classmates who take their stuff, ask them to do things, spread rumours and are generally not nice. I wonder why there are more and more kids behaving like that these days. Parents no time to teach? Sometimes, I think parents forget that they are their child's main educator and they are so busy earning a living to make a better life for the family, they forget this important role and leave it all to the teachers. Teachers can only do so much especially when they are teaching a big class.

Anyway, one day, a classmate asked my boy to carry his bag up the flight of stairs to their classroom as he usually does. My boy who usually does not mind  helping him was tired of being asked over and over again and finally one day he said this to the other boy.

"Kindness Is By Choice, Not By Force."


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Author: Mumsgather
•5/16/2015 08:52:00 AM
My aunty passed away suddenly, unexpectedly. She is missed by all of us. Here is something specially dedicated to her.

We can no longer see you with our eyes
Or touch you with our hands
Nor hear your voice so soft and gentle
But you will always remain in our hearts
Farewell our dear aunty
Farewell rest in peace

RIP Aunty



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Author: Mumsgather
•5/15/2015 08:41:00 AM
I saw this quote being posted and shared on a Facebook account. I don't know who the author is, however it is a beautiful quote. That is why I chose this one to pretty up using PicMonkey online photo editor.

The quote says...

Three things you cannot recover in life, the WORD after it’s said, the MOMENT after it’s missed, and the TIME after it’s gone.  So CHOOSE your words wisely, EMBRACE every moment you have with those you love, and NEVER waste time arguing over things that will not matter in the last 5 minutes of your life.

I just attended the wake for one of my aunties so these words resonate and touched me. Here I would like to share it with a simple graphic. I chose daisies and a soft peach and yellow colored background for it.

Word, Moment, Time Quote

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Author: Mumsgather
•8/01/2013 08:35:00 AM
I like to write all sorts of things. Inspirational quotes, non-fiction parenting books, poems, children's stories. Sometimes when I listen to nice instrumental music, I like to think of the lyrics that could go with it. Yes, I like to write lyrics to a song too. Here's one.

If You'll Just Get To Know Me

I'm a wallflower
At the corner of the room
Everytime you walk by
You never notice me

Because wallflowers don't talk
They are silent, quiet as can be
Because wallflowers don't talk
They stay unnoticed in the corner of the room

Chorus: 
Oh baby
But if you'll just get to know me
You'll know
There's a song in my heart
Just waiting to be sung
There's a story in my head
Just waiting to be told
There's a poem in my mind
Just bursting from within
All the things I never said
They're all inside my head

Repeat Chorus:

End
If you'll just get to know me
You'll know the wallflower is no wallflower at all

This song in my head is dedicated to all the wallflowers in the world. Sing it to any tune you like. :)

Feel free to use the lyrics or the image below but remember to be nice and link back. :)

I am a wallflower


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Author: Mumsgather
•7/31/2013 09:20:00 AM
Sometimes life gets you down. Sometimes it throws you more lemons than you can catch. If you have been down that path before, you will know what I mean. Don't let yourself feel down. Just remember, that the more difficulties you have to go through in life, the stronger you get.

Here is a little poem I wrote to keep hanging on when times are tough. Don't give up. Be strong.

Because I Have

Because I have felt pain
Now I can go through the rain
Because I have shed tears
Now everything is clear

Because I have walked alone
Now I know I can make it on my own
Because I have been afraid
Now I won't be easily swayed

Each knock makes me stronger
Now I can last much longer
On the path that is sometimes tiring
It is not hard to find something inspiring

To keep me going on....
To keep me forever strong.

Feel free to share the poem or the image below but remember to link back. Thank you.

Poem To Keep Hanging On

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/29/2013 11:35:00 AM
Have you seen children skip? My kids used to skip whenever they were happy. It is a natural expression of happiness for them. I love watching them skip. It makes me smile. They have stopped skipping now that they are a little older. However, they still see things in amazing ways that I don't. 

Sometimes, I like to put on my child glasses and see the world again through the eyes of a child. In the eyes of a child, the world is a wonderful place with so many amazing things to learn and explore. They see the good rather than the bad, the beautiful rather than the ugly. 

Through The Eyes Of A Child Poem

The moon is so bright 
The stars are so shiny
The rainbow is so pretty
The rain is so sparkly
Nature is perfect
Through The Eyes Of A Child

The sky is so blue
The butterfly is so yellow
The flowers are so red
The grass is so green
We live in a colorful world
Through The Eyes Of A Child

Mummy is so beautiful
Daddy is so knowing
Grandma is so cuddly
Grandpa is such fun
Family is lovely
Through The Eyes Of A Child

Do you look at nature
Do you notice the colors
Do you love your family
Through The Eyes Of A Child


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Author: Mumsgather
•5/28/2013 11:00:00 AM
Quotes For Mothers. Do You Believe In Love At First Sight? I Do...Because I Am A Mother.

Quotes For Mothers

I love to write. I love to draw. I love quotes. I love motivational posters. So I put them all together. I drew a picture of a mother and her baby. I wrote a quote for my picture. Then I used AutoMotivator to turn my drawing and quote into a Motivational Poster for mothers. I hope you like it.

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/22/2013 07:41:00 AM
Rainbow
Quote: Sometimes The Rain Leaves A Beautiful Rainbow Behind..... So Don't Cry When It Rains. Wait And Maybe, Just Maybe You Will See A Rainbow.
Author: MG (Blog Owner)

There were many times in my life when it rained. Sometimes it rained really hard... like the time when my son was in hospital and the doctor said he had an auto immune decease and at the same time, my daughter had a seizure at home.

My heart felt so heavy then. Like it was at the soles of my feet. So heavy.

However, we made it through the rain and I hope that if life throws us any more challenges we will continue to make it through the rain because sometimes the rain leaves a beautiful rainbow behind. Pin It
Author: Mumsgather
•5/21/2013 07:45:00 AM
A new day brings with it new hope and new beginnings. If you feel unhappy today, you may wake up the next day feeling better. If you quarreled with your spouse today, you may wake up the next day and wonder what made you so angry in the first place. If you are displeased with your children today, you may wake up the next day loving them, just loving them.

So, don't scowl, don't frown, don't be mad, and don't be sad. Sleep over it and tomorrow will be better day. :) Pin It
Author: Mumsgather
•5/20/2013 06:30:00 AM
I Am Free Poem (Bird Flying In The Sky Image)

I AM FREE

I am free... 
I am free to dream
 I am free to be me
 I forgive. I forget. 
I am free....

I am free to let go of the past
 I am free to embrace the future
I am free.....

I am free to create
I am free to write
I am free to learn
I am free.....

I am free to love
I am free to laugh
I am free to live
I am free.

Poem, Quote and Illustration is by the author of this blog. Please do not copy. Poem and Image may be reproduced with permission for non-commercial use. A link back is appreciated. Thank you.

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/17/2013 11:38:00 AM
Woman Pulling Hair Cartoon
Have you ever had that "Aaarrrrgh" moment? The moment that makes you want to pull your hair and stomp your feet and go to the top of the mountain and scream and shout? Well, if you have, then do it. Why not? If you keep it all bottled up, you may feel worse.

Sometimes it feels good to have a good release, a good hair pulling, feet stamping, shouting moment. You will feel much better afterwards. It is much better than keeping it all bottled inside.

However, do remember not to say unkind words in a moment of anger because words cuts like a knife and once it is said, it can never be taken back. So pull your hair and stomp your feet if you want but think twice before saying anything in anger.

Quote: The Things You Say In Anger Does Not Come With A Return Policy ~ Author unknown

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/16/2013 07:44:00 AM
Girl With Flower
Have you stopped to smell the flowers today? I haven't. In fact, I haven't for a very long time now. I have been merely existing and going through the motions of life because there is too much to do. I think it is time to slow down to smell the flowers.

I will do that soon after the kids exams are over. I will take a breather. I will stop to smell the flowers and maybe plant a few too.

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/15/2013 11:28:00 AM
I Like Dreaming... because dreaming can take me anywhere I like to go at any time of the day. I can also look any way I want. Gorgeous, slim, sunbathing at the beach, that is where I am now. What about you?

Woman Sunbathing

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/10/2013 07:44:00 AM
Patience Is Doing Something Else While Waiting. How very true. I have two kids who take the longest time to finish their meals. Now, my ironing station is right beside the dining table. I have lots of ironing to do. So, these days, whenever I finish my meal, I would head over to the ironing board to press out some clothing.

In this way, I don't have to nag at the kids to finish their food. I can chat with them as they are eating and by the time is done, so are some of my clothes. I do this at mealtimes during lunch and dinner so I won't feel overwhelmed by all the ironing I have to do. It is spread out and at the same time, I am more patient with the kids over their tardiness during meals. :P

Patience Quote

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Author: Mumsgather
•5/09/2013 08:54:00 AM

When life throws you lemons, what do you do? Do you rant and rave and get depressed? Well, its okay to rant and rave and get unhappy and sad for a while but we must learn to pick ourselves up and move on.

So next time when life throws lemons at you, why not make a glass of lemon juice, drink the bitter sweet taste and then move on? For life is like that. There will always be ups and downs. Enjoy your ups and don't dwell over the downs for it too shall pass. Pin It
Author: Mumsgather
•12/13/2012 11:15:00 AM
Today, I'm going to move away from quotes and include some idioms in this blog. I have been teaching my children idioms, in Malay and Chinese recently. Idioms are fun. They are a good way to add some color to your language, just like quotes.

The idiom that comes to my mind today is "Add Insult To Injury" or "Rub Salt To Wound" or another idiom would be "To kick a man when he is down."

Why am I thinking of these idioms? My maid went back home during mid-contract and never returned. She is considered a runaway maid. I had to make a police report and had to pay a fine at the immigration when cancelling the work permit. That is certainly "adding insult to injury". Through no fault of mine, my maid did not return to work. I had to bear the expenses of renewing her work permit, passport and buy insurance and air tickets for her and in addition to that, I was fined. Pin It
Author: Mumsgather
•10/22/2012 05:11:00 PM
I like to read quotes and I admire all sorts of stuff with quotes on it. While searching for Christmas Quotes, I found this delightful Christmas Tree Quote Peel & Stick Giant Wall Decal. A Wall decal is an easy way to decorate your home, especially if you are a student or bachelor. It can instantly give your room a festive look with very little effort.

This Christmas Quote is in the form of a quotes on a Christmas tree which you can stick onto your wall to decorate. Christmas Wall Decals are a really cool and fun way to decorate your home for Christmas.

The Christmas Quote reads ...

"May Lovely Happy Times Decorate Your Holidays Season, May Warm, Special Memories Brighten Your New Year, May The Wonder Of Christmas Be With You Forever."


Christmas Tree Quote Wall Decal


Here's another nice Christmas Quote in the form of a wall decal shaped like a Christmas tree. It says

"Joy, Love, Peace, Believe, Christmas"


Christmas Quote Wall Decal


"All I Want For Christmas Are Things Money Can't Buy."

Christmas Quotes Wall Decals

All I Want For Christmas Are Things Money Cant Buy - Quote Sticker Saying Decoration

"Because Someone We Love Is In Heaven.... there's a little bit of HEAVEN in our home"

Christmas Quotes



BECAUSE SOMEONE WE LOVE IS IN HEAVEN THERE'S A LITTLE BIT OF HEAVEN IN OUR HOME Vinyl wall lettering stickers quotes and sayings home art decor decal

I hope you enjoyed this Christmas Quotes on these wall decals. Do you realize we are not firmly into the last quarter of the year 2012? Time flies! 

If you like these, go here for more Christmas Sayings Wall Decals.
For Christmas Gifts Shopping Ideas, visit my Squidoo Lenses below:

Christmas Gift Guide For Whole FamilyChristmas Gift Guide For Whole Family

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Author: Mumsgather
•6/14/2012 05:07:00 PM


DON'T GIVE UP
by Mimi Koay

When you’re feeling low
And life’s dealt you a blow
Don’t give up move on
The night will soon turn to dawn

When you don’t know what to do
And you’re feeling blue
Don’t give up keep going
This is how to continue growing

When you don’t know where to turn
And you’ve reached the point of no return
Don’t give up stay on track
There’s no point in turning back

When you feel like you want to cry
And all you can ask is why
Don’t give up it will soon be over
You will soon have some closure

When you think things are really bleak
And you can’t take anymore critique
Don’t give up hold your head up
You will rise above the snub

Don’t give up stand tall
You will rise above it all
The sun will shine again
With a stronger you after the rain


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•6/14/2012 12:44:00 PM

I have had this blog for some time now. Most of the time, I like to collect and share meaningful and inspirational thoughts and quotes to share. Most of these quotes are inspiring to me at different points of my life.

Today, I have decided to take this blog one step further by designing my own quotes graphics and making up my own quotes. I shall also be writing inspirational poems. Yes, in order to reach my goals and my dreams of becoming a full time writer, I must let go of my old ways. I must learn new things in order to reach higher goals.

Today's quote is "Sometimes You Have To Let Go To Reach Higher Goals". In my quote graphic, I drew balloons in the sky. Just like balloons, you have to let go, in order to reach the skies. So just as the saying goes, you have to let go of old ways of doing things, learn new things, let go of old behaviors, learn better ones and let go of the past and look into the future in order to be successful and meet the goals you have set for yourself.

My goal is to write more inspirational poems by starting with the first step, writing inspirational quotes with a self-designed graphic. I'm loving it! I love this. I wonder why I didn't think of it before. I guess, I didn't learn to let go... till today.

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•5/15/2012 10:55:00 AM


I was not feeling happy last night and this morning but I decided to turn some of that negative feelings into positive energy... by writing. I wrote this quotes today. I hope you like them. It is about always believing in yourself and making sure your self image is not dented by anything anyone says. 

The above picture was taken by me when I went to i-City Shah Alam some time ago. I wrote a quote and made it into a motivational poster. This motivational poster design is available as a inspirational mouse pad on in my CafePress Shop. If you like the same design on a t-shirt or mug or bag, let me know and I will try to customize it for you.

Now, on to my quotes. 

"Sometimes what is important is not having your say but learning quietly."


"Believe in yourself even when someone else does not. That is the key to self image." 



"Even a cactus with thorns can be beautiful. It depends on what you choose to see. The thorns or the flowers."


Motivational Poster

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